In my recent post, i shared that your peace is one of the most important asset you must fight to keep no matter what it will cost you.
I shared that one of the way you can lose your peace is Jealousy and i gave out some points that will help you eradicate jealousy. Click Here to Read.
In this post, i will be sharing with you another tool that can deprive you of that peace that you wish for and that is COMPARISON
Nobody is as disappointed and unhappy as the person who spends his or her life longing to be someone else.
The biggest mistakes you will ever make in life is to compare your success or little fall back to someone else life.
Comparison has a way of eating up our peace when we compare our self to people who are better off than us or even those we are better off.
It can build you jealousy, affect our decision making and can even set us up for failure if not handle.
8 Reasons Why You Not Compare yourself to Anybody
1.Comparison is time consuming
Time is one of the greatest asset that you guild judiciously. so why waste your time worrying about what others have done and archived when you can use that time to improve or think of how you can make a better life .
Time management, is one the key way to succeed and so don’t waste that precious time lamenting or comparing yourself to somebody else
2. It makes you see the Glory instead of the Story
If you want to succeed, you must listen to the story of great men on how they started from the scratch. You need to walk through the road to success.
But comparison will make you only see the result and neglect the efforts. And this can lead to poor output or growth because you have refuse to learn.
3.You Are Unique In Your Way
Allow this to enter you that you are special in your way. The person who walks in someone else tracks will never leaves his own foot prints. We have our own strength and weaknesses.
Until you make peace with whom you are, you will never be content with what you haveDoris Mortman
4. You Are On Earth To Set Your Records
Our business in life, is not to get ahead of others, but to get ahead of ourselves, to break our records, to outstrip our yesterday by our today.
So what others have done makes no difference in what you have, can or will do.
5. You are Not Them
The truth is that many people are living fake life in school, work and social media. You see that person is who you think is superly rich or put on expensive clothes might be the poorest person on earth if you get to him properly. Am talking from experience because i have seen
The easiest thing to be in the world is you. The most difficult to be is what other people want you to be.
6. Comparison is a joy Eater
Comparison has a way of even taking the slightest thing that gives you joy. Even when you attempt new things, the joy that comes from it can be sucked out.
7. Comparison connote foolishness
2. 2 Corinthians 10:12
We wouldn’t put ourselves in the same class with or compare ourselves
to those who are bold enough to make their own recommendations.
Certainly, when they measure themselves by themselves and compare hemselves to themselves,
they show how foolish they are.
8. Unfulfilled Life
The end product of comparison is an unfulfilled assignment, goal, vision and targets.
God has a specific plan for you and you won’t accomplish that plan by looking at others.
Brace up, stand firm, appreciate the little and big success that you have achieved, clap for yourself even when no one does and put on a big smile
and say to yourself i am improving and i will get there soon.
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